And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school. If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Fun fact: Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.
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A cougar is typically defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to and may have a sexual relationship with significantly younger men. Although precise ages vary with the definer, in general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Some women and men consider "cougar" a sexist, derogatory term , but the flavor of the meaning in context varies from empowering to offensive. Current terms for men who marry or seek relationships with much younger women are such things are the derogatory "dirty old man" and more rarely, a "rhino.
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Cougar is slang for a woman who seeks sexual activity with significantly younger men. The origin of the word cougar as a slang term is debated, but it is thought to have originated in Western Canada and first appeared in print on the Canadian dating website Cougardate. The term has been variously applied to women who pursue sexual relations with men more than eight years younger than they are,  and to women over the age of 40 who aggressively pursue sexual relations with men in their 20s or 30s. A British psychological study published in Evolution and Human Behavior asserted that men and women, in general, continue to follow traditional gender roles when searching for mates, and thus concluded that the posited "cougar phenomenon" does not exist, or more precisely, exists but is rare.
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