Curious, I googled this to see if it was something commonly felt and there were dozens of articles repeating the exact same things over and over again. In response, I wrote a short post of my own that outlined my views on dating. Some people loved it, some hated it, and one even accused me of preying on chronically depressed people. Like Therapist Dracula or something.
Why Dating Is So Hard For Those Of Us Who Want Something Real
Why Dating Is Such a Challenge | Psychology Today
Everyone I seem to talk to has the same feeling: Dating has become so hard. It seems like nobody wants to commit anymore, and it seems to be a challenge every single step of the way. You can blame the dating apps. You can blame Tinder, and Bumble, and Hinge, and all the choices that people have. Because for the very, very first time in history, men and women have a ridiculous amount of choices available to them. Men and women go out on a date and if just one thing isn't right, well, in the olden days, it used to be very simple.
Why Dating Has Become So Hard
It could mean they want to be friends with you or date you or fuck you. No one knows. They want to wear makeup in elementary school, have sex in middle school, and move into their own apartment in high school.
Verified by Psychology Today. Valley Girl With a Brain. Schwartz is a renowned behavioral psychologist and author of The Paradox of Choice , a life-changing book that examines how and why having too much choice makes us miserable.