It took me a couple months to start repairing my broken heart after the toughest breakup of my life. I thought we were going to spend our lives together, but the gods of love had other plans. But I got back on my horse and kept riding. On the first date I went on after my breakup I talked about my ex.
9 Tips For Dating Again After A Bad Breakup, According To Experts
So it seems there are a lot of despondent people out there when it comes to love. The fact that so many say they want to find love yet have given up on it is a sad thing. But what we often do is not get over the heartbreak at all and instead put up those defences to compensate. We hate all of the feelings that come with the end of a relationship or even bad dating experiences so we avoid them and often look for love again with our heads all over the place. That might sound a bit woo woo, but to find love you have to truly believe it is out there for you. Imagine going on a first date with someone who already believes they could never have a connection with you? Do you need some more work on your previous heartbreak?
Dealing with a broken heart: how to believe in love again
Getting back up on your feet and TBH out of your bed can be really hard after a heartbreak. You already know that you're strong enough to survive a nasty breakup. Sure, you know how bad it can hurt, but you also know that it's nothing you can't get through, and that lets you relax and take more chances in your new relationship. It makes you excited about the idea of love for the first time in a long time.
Everybody has that one relationship that breaks you so open, it nearly tears you apart. The one that devastates you in a way that makes it seem as though feelings may not be possible, or even wanted ever again. But then. One day.